Saturday, February 28, 2015

Roberta Harbor Bolton

Roberta Harbor Bolton
May 5, 1920 - February 25, 2015
February 28, 2015

Purpose of a funeral service:[1]
The grace and peace of our Lord Christ be with us all.
On behalf of Carolyn, Billie, Doug, and their families, on behalf of the grandchildren who dearly loved and admired their grandmother, we welcome everyone to this gathering in this place of Commerce Presbyterian Church.
In the presence of one another, and in the communion of the saints,
We come together to celebrate the life and love of Roberta Harbor Bolton.
We give thanks to God for every expression of God’s grace we experienced in and from and with Roberta.
We accept her death as God’s mercy and blessing upon nearly 95 years of life among us.
In this worship service, we will ask the God of Comfort to strengthen us in our grief;
To assure us that God’s reconciling mercy will prevail;
and claim resurrection hope for us.
The family emphasized they wanted this to be a celebration.  And so we will celebrate.
We will celebrate with tears. We will celebrate with laughter. We will celebrate with deep sighs, we will celebrate with stories, song and prayers.

Finally we will profess the faith of the Christian Church, grounded in God’s victory over death, revealed in the resurrection of Jesus Christ, and, abiding in that faith and hope we will commend Roberta to God’s eternal being with gratitude and great joy.
Hear these gracious words from Scripture:
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not let them be afraid.
I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.

The Lord be with you.
And also with you.
Let us pray.

O God our Maker,
we bless you for the great company of all those who have kept the faith, finished their race, and who now rest from their labor. As we gather to remember and to celebrate the life of one whose life was blessed with many years, we give you thanks for those dear to us who preceded her in death,  whom we name in our hearts before you. . . .
And now, at this time and in this place we thank you for Roberta;
we trust you have received her into your presence.
In this mystery of life and faith, we cling to the hope we experience as we share her story, wrapped in your own story of love for this world.  
As Roberta was nearing death, she asked her son Doug if she could go home...he gently touched her forehead and reassured her, you are going home, Mama. You’ll be home real soon.  We rejoice in picture painted in scripture of all your saints gathered in your home, in your eternal loving presence.
So We worship you, in this moment O Triune God; and we pray these things in the name of the one you raised from the grave, Jesus Christ. Amen.

Come, let us raise a joyful song, A shout of triumph to the rock of our salvation.
Our hymn is #339 in the blue hymnal.  As you are able, please stand to sing.

Miriam Moncrief, this church’s administrator, asked me this week to run by LifeWay near my home, to pick up bulletins for this occasion, saying, “we don’t have enough bulletins for Roberta Bolton’s funeral!”  Many of those dear to her, siblings, family members, friends, co-workers, have gone before her, still there are plenty around who care to celebrate the life, commitment, steadfastness, and love of Roberta.  

Sunday, February 22, 2015

Spiritual Training

Mark 1:9-15 - “how’s your training going?”

This morning’s sermon is about spiritual training....
Turn to your neighbor and ask:
How’s your training going?
[you been working out?]
Until only a few years ago, I’d never really thought much about training.
I never really knew how to train.
Playing soccer and football growing up preparation was always called practice, not training.
Lifting, going to the gym these were workouts, not training.  
Coaches (IMAGE - coach) stood over me and gently pushing me to top performance, so I didn’t have to take a lot of initiative, just show up.   

Then I met Mt. Taylor (IMAGE - Mt Taylor) .
And here on this mountain considered sacred by the
Navajo people,
There is a winter Quadrathlon - Starting at 6500 feet, we bike up, run up, ski up, then snow shoe up to the top, and once at the top, there is little time to enjoy the scenery -- we have to descend into the valley, all four elements in reverse order.

The first year I did it with a friend,
we had barely trained, we showed up with clunky gear and a rookie game plan.  
We both got smoked, finishing the 43 mile race in five hours and thirty minutes...middle of the pack at best.

Second year, with a bit of experience, but still with minimal training, I only did slightly better.

Then, someone suggested I train, and gave me a guide as to how I could train.
And train is what I did.  
I read books on training like:
Marathon – the ultimate training guide
which states: anyone who has decently working joints and a good heart, can run a marathon…because fundamentally, it’s all about Training.
How you train determines how you perform.
how’s your training going?

In the Marathon book, there are nice little training programs; designed for novice, intermediate, and advanced runners,  
the training programs are for about 18 weeks,
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on a grid,
each day you’re told exactly what you are supposed to do.
Monday – Rest (isn’t that great you get to rest before you even get started!)
Tuesday 3 mile run –
Wed – 35 minute run
Thursday – 3 miles run at your best pace
Friday – rest
Saturday – 6 mile run
Sunday – bike for 35 minutes

The idea is to gradually build up your mileage and endurance in order to condition your body appropriately enough to run the entire distance without something going wrong….injury, cramps, seizures, heart attack, dying …

The goal of training: condition consistently to perform consistently, and finish.
So, to prepare for the “quad” I adapted a training program - integrating bike, ski, and snow shoeing with the running, and trained for 18 weeks.
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By the time the event came, I was ready,
I performed and I finished.

I beat my personal best record by 54 minutes.
I had previously finished only as high as 27th, but after the training I finished 4th,
first in my age group.
Motivated as I was, I was even able to raise about $2k for a local charity!
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Ruby Gene had no clue what I had accomplished, but she saw that her daddy, who had blood all over his face because he fell off his bicycle
had done something important and she stuck to me like glue the entire rest of the day.
In spite of the fall, I was very pleased with how I’d done,
However, more than pleased with my performance, I was surprised.
I’d finished so much sooner than I ever dreamed.
Trasie and the kids missed me crossing the finish line – and when she saw me with blood all over she said, I’m so sorry you didn’t get to finish…”

All I could conclude is that training can lead to a better performance, more selfassuredness, confidence, competence, effectiveness, readiness,
In preparing for the quad, I was amazed at the ability of my body to physically change in order to meet the challenge.

After the quad, I was perplexed, if I can train in such a way to do so well in some race…
Is there a way for me to train spiritually that I may run a good Christian race?
Is there some kind of training program that can help me grow and mature and develop spiritually, so that I may reflect more authentically God’s nature which abides in me,
that I may grow deeper in my relationship with God?

What kind of training do I need so that I can act lovingly in all situations;
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even when someone does something that is offensive, or cuts me off, or is threatening?
To forgive always?
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What kind of training do I need so that I may live with patience and understanding, especially in my home--with a three year old and a six year old...
and a spouse in a doctoral program
so I don’t create anxiety or confusion for them because I’ve let fears and frustrations infiltrate my being;
may there be shalom in my home.
I don’t want Ruby or Zia to do like a little boy Jason who after the christening of his baby brother in church, sobbed all the way home.
His father asked him what was wrong.
Jason replied, 'The preacher said he wanted us brought up in a Christian home, and I wanted to stay with you guys.'
And for my poor kids…I am the preacher!
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What kind of training do I need so that I may courageously fight against injustices, and not succumb to any powers or principalities which seek to establish systems and policies which lead to oppression and marginalization of those Jesus would call “the least of my brethren..” the vulnerable among all creatures great and small..

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Just as I did well in the Quad, can I, as it says in the book of Hebrews, run with perseverance the race marked out..the spiritual race…
fixing my eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith.
Consider him, Hebrews says, who endured the cross, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.
So that you won’t let the world get the best of you…and fall into despair, or apathy, or selfish living
How do we train spiritually?
It may not translate exactly like training for the Quadrathalon,
but I can’t let go of the idea..if I can follow some kind of recommended training exercise on a daily basis, I can perform well,
Can I not train spiritually?
so that I can run daily a life that reflects Godly living….

So I’ll ask again: how’s your training going?

For much of history, Christians have attempted to capture in various ways something of the essence of the forty days their master spent in the wilderness as we read in the gospels;

Was this a type of training period for Jesus to prepare him for the prepare him for the cross?  
I would have liked to have asked Jesus at some point while he was in the wilderness - How’s your training going?

For many in the christian faith we observe Lent, forty days to give something up or take something on.  
I asked on facebook what people are doing for lent:
Many observe lent by giving something up…
- Road rage, Sugar, alcohol, starbucks!

Some people take something on…again facebook friends: beginning again, read the bible daily, self love.

It is a wonderful time to act with intention...because it is kind of long,
but not too terribly long where we can give up and take on and it won’t kill us...hopefully.  

Giving up and taking on, can go together very well,
at their core, can lead to growing in deeper relationship with God and one another, which is what the spiritual life is all about.  
So the intention I propose for us for Lent is for it to be a time to focus on training?  
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I think the Desert Mothers and Fathers demonstrated essential Christian aspects of effective spiritual training programs:
They dedicated themselves to prayer, meditation on scripture, solitude, labor, poverty, fasting, service.
Which involve both taking on and giving up...
And this Lent, I’d like the congregation to both help me and join with me.
During the days of Lent, help me to develop a training plan…a 40 day training plan,
to prepare disciples to run the race….
And Join with me in engaging in various practices in order to do this
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Each week we’re going to focus on a certain spiritual practice that may be incorporated into our training program.  

In the bulletin you’ll see the training exercise for the week.  
We’re going to begin with prayer.
Only we know our own individual prayer practice.
We each have different understandings of prayer.  
Prayer can be silent, praying the scriptures, praying through the prayer list,  intercessory prayer,
meeting with a prayer partner or prayer group,
praying while walking or knitting,

I want those who are willing to commit to at least 10 - 15 minutes of prayer training each day this week…to commit, and  I’m going to ask for a show of hands.  
Not really to create peer pressure - but peer pressure can be effective,
but more to demonstrate solidarity :)


So, if you’re willing to commit to at least 10 - 15 minutes of prayer each day this week, please raise your hand.  
And now, with hands raised, turn to someone with their hand raised, and ask if you can check in with them next week to let them know how it went.
And as we’re going along, if any of you care to share with everyone else some of your experiences, do it on facebook or share on Sunday morning,
please let me know...

Is this training hard?
My training for the quad was sure hard…and I don’t think Jesus’ time with Satan and wild beasts in the wilderness was a stroll in the park. But remember the angels were there with him as well.

Notice that what led Jesus into the wilderness…was the Spirit.  
Our spiritual training is ultimately, led by the spirit,
but just as Jesus was willing to be baptized by John in the Jordan,
we must have a willingness to be open to the spirit’s leading in our lives….
Is the training worth it?
Perhaps we might ask: is it worth it to be in deeper relationship with our dear God?

Affirmation of faith - instead of words, silence being still...silence and stillness are acts of faith. 3 minutes.

Open with prayer...

Let us pray:
Jesus preached,
“The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God has come near; may we change our ways, and believe in the good news.”

Come holy spirit…fill this place. Come holy spirit…lead us where you may…
This we pray…to listen and obey.

3 minutes silence


Sunday, February 8, 2015

Healer Jesus - Mark 1:29-39

Commerce Presbyterian Church
February 8, 2015
A service of healing and wholeness

Former Haitian President, Catholic Priest Father Jean-Bertrand Aristide said during a homily in a Haitian church in 1986:
“People [often] read the Gospel as if it pertained [only] to another place and time;
but, the struggles described [in the gospels] are in the here and now.
The oppression of the poor, the abuse of the vulnerable,
and the redemption that comes with fighting for what is right—
what ideas could be more relevant to our dear Haiti?”  (mass St. Jean Bosco, 1986 as remembered by Paul Farmer and recorded by Tracy Kidder in Mountains beyond Mountains: 105:2003).

The oppression of the poor, the abuse of the vulnerable, and the redemption that comes with fighting for what is right--What ideas could be more relevant in our dear United States of America?   

Yes, I believe the work and message of Jesus is as relevant as ever, and is the work of the church, on our behalf, and carried out by us.

The fame of Jesus has quickly spread.
Now, the scripture says, the whole town gathered at the door where he was.

Who were these masses coming to Jesus?
In Jesus’ day, there was a significant gap between the haves and the have nots. Over 90% of the population were peasants in a primarily agrarian economy.
There was taxation from the religious establishment, as well as from an occupying Roman government.  
It’s not hard to imagine this whole town coming to Jesus are among the most poor.
Disease and physical disability were knotted together with the cycle of poverty.